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KittySweets posted a comment on Are you new here? This is for you!!
Epic blog, thanks Wander xx 5 minutes ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Community
Thank you x 6 minutes ago
Tortuga45 posted a comment on #Let Go
Forsure NewandWild Xx 6 minutes ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Now What!!
Great blog thank you. Can’t wait for next instalment tomorrow xx 7 minutes ago
Dóchas has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
Hi everyone. I'm up here in my study fuming😡OH wondered an hour ago what my plans for the day were in a rather sarcastic way and when challenged he only half jo... 7 minutes ago
AlysR has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
I'm quite happy to host April if people are ok with my fairly abrasive form of positivity! I'll try to be gentle and kind, and won't be offended if somebody els... 9 minutes ago
Reggie2 posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
Wow I amazed by this blog. I teared up also but what tenacity! You can do it!! 10 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on SHARING THE TOOLS
Thank you Nana Treen, I love all of your suggestions!xoxoxKatie💜 13 minutes ago
Marjan has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good afternoon.Still going strong:) 14 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on So much sleep!
So happy that you're getting better Ruthy! You're sober strong!!!💜💪xoxoxKatie 16 minutes ago
Marjan has posted in the forum discussions Window Washing
So much better to be cleaning the house instead of waiting till it's five o''clock & the wine bottle can be opened!! 16 minutes ago
Wander_Mom posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
Thank you so much for allowing me to share and for your words of support. I've never been one to journal, and I never blogged before joining here. Of the many m... 19 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on I’m new here...
Welcome!!!! You are in the right place. Reading your blog reminded me of me. My story is very similar in many ways. While I initially wanted to stop drinking fo... 20 minutes ago
McEhh posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
What a beautifully moving blog you have written, Wander. My heart goes out to you and your family. Thank you for walking us through your grief through the gif... 20 minutes ago
Tray74 posted a comment on SHARING THE TOOLS
Great words! 24 minutes ago
PaintingGirl posted a comment on You do You
Really like this blog. It's such a good observation about extremes in behaviour and remembering no one really knows whats going on in others lives. I err to t... 24 minutes ago
EllaP posted a comment on Struggling...
Thankyou all for your kind words 💕 I really appreciate it. Ttsamous I completely get what you are feeling, my OH was playing gigs most weekends and had loads of... 24 minutes ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
So, good morning lovelies, I was going to checkin and tell you about my evening and morning so far but having read back and sat with the feelings inside me whic... 25 minutes ago
bellina62 has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
Good morning sticks! I've been limiting myself to 5 minutes news once a day, and that has immensely helped my outlook. I did spend an hour and a half yesterday... 26 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
So sorry for your loss Wander. Life doesn't seem fair. I loved your blog- thank you for sharing all of the details of such a private moment and struggle. The st... 27 minutes ago
Wander_Mom has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thank you everyone for your support and your love and your words...I receive them all like a MUCH needed hug...God what I wouldn't give for a real life group hu... 32 minutes ago
Sarnia has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hellooooo Again!!Robin13 that is an amazing achievement - 400 fantastic days, congratulations!NewandWild you are so right, one of the biggest lessons learned i... 35 minutes ago
PaintingGirl posted a comment on I’m new here...
but I also agree with Suenew. William Porter is also a brilliant start or Unexpected Joy of Being Sober by Catherine Gray. x 39 minutes ago
Zephyr has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Determined to at least check in, even when the words won't come. For now, sending love to all.Today, I choose sober. KOKO, me hearties.xx Z 39 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Feeling grateful...
Same!💜xoxoKatie 41 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on Look what I found
Thanks Tina, nice reminder! xoxoKatie💜 42 minutes ago
PaintingGirl posted a comment on I’m new here...
Hi there. You have made the hardest step already. Day 3 is brilliant because almost all the booze is out of your system and you have written here. You will g... 46 minutes ago
Icarus12 posted a comment on You do You
Great blog, well worth remembering you do you, it’s too easy to judge without knowing what’s truly going on x 54 minutes ago
Icarus12 posted a comment on Community
So true we need the connection now more than ever, look forward to the webinar and will put some more effort into writing a bit more here instead of thinking ab... 57 minutes ago
Lavender1 posted a comment on Now What!!
Keeping on moving forward with you Cade! Much love xx 58 minutes ago
Chris_219 posted a comment on SHARING THE TOOLS
A great Desert Island Discs just now on Radio 4, Brian Cox, Scottish actor. So true Treen, Radio 4 is always the backup. x 59 minutes ago
Pancake37 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I Pancake37 do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol inAll its guises. I join this crusade and my initialta... 1 hour ago
Icarus12 posted a comment on Now What!!
Thank you Cade, yessir, gotta keep moving forward, I never want to go back to that all consuming sadness and sickness I felt in my whole being, good to remember... 1 hour ago
PaintingGirl has posted the blog The 1 thing we can be certain of is uncertainty. And thats OK.
These are indeed strange times, an unprecedented fear of the unknown.  Health and economic uncertainty. I have been here before but this time I will be sober an... 1 hour ago
bellina62 posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
This is really helpful for me to see you dissect this urge so well. One other thing I would observe here - there's an old association going on. Wine is how we u... 1 hour ago
Suenew posted a comment on I’m new here...
Welcome Fully explore this site and read old blogs build a toolkit and read Alcohol Explained William Porter if you only read one book. One minute at a time... 1 hour ago
Suenew posted a comment on SHARING THE TOOLS
morning Nana thanks for the prompts I will google Ted talks which I have been meaning to do 1 hour ago
Vespagirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning, tribe. Marlene, you are amazing. What an endless day but you got through it! Sober! The playing it forward really struck me, the vision of hiding the... 1 hour ago
Wren44 has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
hello stickschecking in - been struggling hugely with difficult situation at work. Think I have worked out how I am going to deal with it now (thanks to wonderf... 1 hour ago
NewandWild has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
@Island - yep, I'm in Kiama - 10 points!! World's biggest natural blowhole (they say!) ;) x 1 hour ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Are you new here? This is for you!!
Epic blog, thanks Wander xx 5 minutes ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Community
Thank you x 6 minutes ago
Tortuga45 posted a comment on #Let Go
Forsure NewandWild Xx 6 minutes ago
KittySweets posted a comment on Now What!!
Great blog thank you. Can’t wait for next instalment tomorrow xx 7 minutes ago
Dóchas has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
Hi everyone. I'm up here in my study fuming😡OH wondered an hour ago what my plans for the day were in a rather sarcastic way and when challenged he only half jo... 7 minutes ago
AlysR has commented in the forum discussions MARCH STICKS: Shall we go deeper!!!!??
I'm quite happy to host April if people are ok with my fairly abrasive form of positivity! I'll try to be gentle and kind, and won't be offended if somebody els... 9 minutes ago
Reggie2 posted a comment on Memorials and toolboxes
Wow I amazed by this blog. I teared up also but what tenacity! You can do it!! 10 minutes ago
Katie_41 posted a comment on SHARING THE TOOLS
Thank you Nana Treen, I love all of your suggestions!xoxoxKatie💜 13 minutes ago
Marjan has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good afternoon.Still going strong:) 14 minutes ago



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