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Hopefulheart has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Yes it’s great :) Off to work, have a lovely day all! Xx 3 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on 6 MONTHS!!! 😀
Fabulous work. Thanks for the support you have given to me and many others in your journey too. 5 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Excuses
Sounds fabulous. Yes the great disassociation from alcohol. The amount of people I know who've had a 'bad prawn', stretches into the ridiculous. So great you... 5 minutes ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning lovely sober people on a glorious hang over free Saturday morning ... I’m celebrating that today 🥳First things first, I had another Ista meet up la... 5 minutes ago
Rodley posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
It's a new beginning for you which must be exciting and daunting at the same time. I hope the move goes well for you. I moved house 5 times last year, largely d... 7 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Day 3 and Tetchy
Stay under the duvet. Do you really need to go tonight? If it's going to be a trigger, don't go. If you really don't want to go, don't go. Make the best decisio... 9 minutes ago
Rodley posted a comment on I'M BACK AGAIN !! Day 3
Hi Sunnie, glad you're back and sorry to hear you've been struggling. We'll done for pouring the wine away. Hope you enjoy your morning run. You'll feel so much... 13 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Two weeks into YEAR TWO!
Congratulations, on your year, and on 'finding' yourself. It's interesting that you say you are 'alone' more, but, you don't say lonely. I think when we are dr... 15 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on Two funerals
Hi SG. Sending love and hugs to you. I am struck by how centred your words are and how sad it is that our cultural response in the UK is to numb ourselves to lo... 17 minutes ago
Kath5 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hopefulheart.... that was my day 2 post! Great isn’t it? 18 minutes ago
PaintingGirl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
you are right Tina, there has been nothing but support here for me. That makes it all the more awful and shaming. What it did do was stop me enough to pour most... 20 minutes ago
Bubble_11 posted a comment on January Slumps and the Joys of THE FYM
I love this RG, brilliant brilliant brilliant blog. Soberfish who many of us follow made Fridays her cleaning night she calls it ”Bang! and the cravings gone!”... 21 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Something New
TD, careful now, seems that you may have been socialising 😀. Seriously, though, well done you. I also go to yoga, mine is called a ' goddess' class, and I int... 24 minutes ago
Hopefulheart has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Day two! So lovely to wake without a hangover yay! 25 minutes ago
Running girl has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Happy HAGS day and happy HAGGIS day (see what I did there? I know, I know 😳)Great numbers today. Ladybird, so excited for your next graduation and the 50 gals!... 25 minutes ago
Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Yes TTJB, Bukelan and I were first colleagues, then friends, then practically neighbours and now fellow Soberistas. Plus side, when you come to Strasbourg there... 28 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on Please help me get through this day 2
You have taken such an important step in doing right by yourself by reaching out here and starting your AF journey. Your life will be bigger, brighter and more... 29 minutes ago
Lizzie1967 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning all. I am also so jealous of Jazz and Bukelan within walking distance and WHERE they live ♥️♥️♥️♥️ I noticed a place on the map this morning called... 30 minutes ago
SunflowerField posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
Hi, you are doing really well. Yes you are bound to feel anxious but just breathe through the feelings. Well done for being strong, not accepting the Insta requ... 31 minutes ago
Mamie has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Morning gang....boy it's good to be back! Ive missed checkin in....I so wouldn't like to be alone in this AF malarkey! So much to tell you...but so little time... 31 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Sawadee Ka my friends
So happy you had a great trip, lovely blog❤🙏❤🙏❤ 32 minutes ago
DigsySE18 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 33 minutes ago
Kath5 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning all fabulous boards this morning.... half way Em,Kelly and overthewall.....Jaz 13 months ...over a year! And Bukelan 5 months.... to name just a few.Tea... 34 minutes ago
Sabine67 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 34 minutes ago
Whimsy21 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
QACI this morning, Well done my fellow HAGS and all the monthers 👏👏Day 180 for me 🙂 34 minutes ago
Bubble_11 posted a comment on Getting off the hamster wheel
Beautifully eloquent as always darling M. You are a sober power to be reckoned with (for the witch that is!) and it’s been truly a privilege to watch you going... 38 minutes ago
Chris_219 posted a comment on Two funerals
So sorry to read this SG, my condolences on your loss. Thank heaven you don't have to think about any weakening with alcohol. I hope it all goes as well as it c... 43 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on January Slumps and the Joys of THE FYM
Brilliant, brilliantly written and helpful blog. Enjoy your transformation and the FYM/life that is the reward of being AF. Thanks for the inspiration. Four mon... 48 minutes ago
Chris_219 has commented in the forum discussions NEW YOUNG AT HEART THREAD, SAME ETHOS.
Early morning post from me who has just come back from ....... a run!!! Ha ha ha.So, as you all know my sister has Alzheimer's but the decline had been incredib... 49 minutes ago
tryingtojustbe has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
McEh....Pacific Coast you say? Could you give me a little hint to pin that down? We must have a west coast meetup sometime, yes Sparkles?... speaking of Sparkle... 51 minutes ago
SunflowerField posted a comment on I'M BACK AGAIN !! Day 3
Hi Sunnie, really really pleased to see you back on here. I think blogging will be good for you and build a wide network of support. Its good that you told your... 57 minutes ago
Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I'm only 10 minutes into the podcast and it's so true we have created artificial needs (read addictions) but need to look at what our real needs are. We've said... 1 hour ago
Susie57 has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Good to see you Rosyapple 😘Congratulations 007Mum - 270 days is amazing xI‘ve got an MRI at 8.30 so need to get a wiggle on. Hoping to meet a friend to book a... 1 hour ago
Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well done to all the HAGs! Especially Ella, Kimmy and OTW on 50, halfway to 100 🎉🎉🎉Delighted to see my fellow stoners up non the board today : Jan on 10 months... 1 hour ago
Bubble_11 posted a comment on LIFE & SOUL in 3 MONTHS' TIME
Treen I am going to see if I can make it but need to book leave. Are there still places available. Lisa 1 hour ago
Bubble_11 has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Morning All. The consequence of great sleep yesterday means I’ve been awake since around 5. Never mind it means Lily has some Mummy cuddles while I read. Mr D i... 1 hour ago
Ali_191 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning all and well done team hope! off to a spin class shortly then working for the rest of the day - it’s day 25 and I’ve never been more productive in my ad... 1 hour ago
Strawbs has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Quick quack as I'm on a course today. Have a super sober Saturday y'all! Strawbs x 1 hour ago
four posted a comment on Two funerals
I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom. For me, losing my mom was profound. It was very tragic as I was her support system and very close to her, but sad... 1 hour ago
Livingtheexperience posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
Enjoy your new space lovely, I love the sound of your new doona cover. I can totally understand how you are triggered. Once you get into your new place hopefull... 2 hours ago
Morningwalker posted a comment on January Slumps and the Joys of THE FYM
Great blog RG, thanks. Lots of food for thought. So glad your meeting with the solicitor went well. MW x 2 hours ago
Coccinelle time posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
All the best with the move. Enjoy the sorting through stuff. X 2 hours ago
Maggie_68 posted a comment on Excuses
Ah, the lies we tell ourselves to keep us from facing the truth. Thank goodness we finally got honest. Great blog. You’re such an adventurous soul - hope you... 2 hours ago
Maggie_68 posted a comment on Two funerals
So sorry for your loss SG. Be gentle with yourself x 2 hours ago
Maggie_68 posted a comment on Please help me get through this day 2
Well done for reaching out. Those who love us don’t hurt us Jodijo. They do everything in their power to bring us happiness. Remove the alcohol and you will g... 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on Two funerals
So very sorry for the loss of your mom. What a gift that you were able to spend some time with her a few weeks ago. Wishing you peace.xx. April 2 hours ago
April_16 posted a comment on Excuses
Love this blog!xx. April 2 hours ago
Maggie_68 posted a comment on I'M BACK AGAIN !! Day 3
Glad you’re back. Re-commit and never question the decision. 2 hours ago
Lozza52 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Well done Hope and Glorias! So many great numbers. Triplets on 50 and Ladybird just 10 days from 400. We’ll done too to Runningragged, ttsamous and vintage doll... 2 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
Hi Ali, Good luck with the move.Happy to hear things are moving along. Have a good weekend. How exciting, a nw place! I wish you the best for your life changes... 3 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on 3 weeks and a day
Hi Rodley,Sorry your feeling off. It does happen and your right it does pass. It's still not easy. I hope you feel better soon.Your not horrible silly. Down tim... 3 hours ago
jj45 posted a comment on Re: reaching out
Keep coming back. Lots of support here. 3 hours ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Em_61, I have my fingers crossed for your son.  Please keep us informed how he is doing. Kimmy, thanks for the recipe!             Wander, beautiful post.  Bett... 3 hours ago
lindseybev has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 3 hours ago
Cathrine posted a comment on It’s true..life is better
Hi Icarus, This is so beautiful.It's really special to read how your becoming happy in your life. Living AF IS so much better. Thank you for all the support... 3 hours ago
Justus posted a comment on 3 weeks and a day
There's much more fun quit lit out there than the Big Book, try picking up one or two of those in your retail therapy--or they might even have some at the libra... 3 hours ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions Dry January
Celebrations for Saturday the 25th of January 3 hours ago
Justus posted a comment on Re: reaching out
Stick close this weekend Sadie, Soberistas will get you through!! 3 hours ago
Sparkles has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to everyone on The Hope and Glory Team   !  Congratulations to our Monthly Milestone Achievers!     ❤ Please remember to post regularly  and re-... 3 hours ago
Justus posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
You're doing this adulting thing really well Ali. I would be anxious too about seeing the roommate but you did nothing wrong. Just be kind and empathetic, and... 4 hours ago
Hopefulheart has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Yes it’s great :) Off to work, have a lovely day all! Xx 3 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on 6 MONTHS!!! 😀
Fabulous work. Thanks for the support you have given to me and many others in your journey too. 5 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Excuses
Sounds fabulous. Yes the great disassociation from alcohol. The amount of people I know who've had a 'bad prawn', stretches into the ridiculous. So great you... 5 minutes ago
PoppyRainbow has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Good morning lovely sober people on a glorious hang over free Saturday morning ... I’m celebrating that today 🥳First things first, I had another Ista meet up la... 5 minutes ago
Rodley posted a comment on Moving tomorrow
It's a new beginning for you which must be exciting and daunting at the same time. I hope the move goes well for you. I moved house 5 times last year, largely d... 7 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Day 3 and Tetchy
Stay under the duvet. Do you really need to go tonight? If it's going to be a trigger, don't go. If you really don't want to go, don't go. Make the best decisio... 9 minutes ago
Rodley posted a comment on I'M BACK AGAIN !! Day 3
Hi Sunnie, glad you're back and sorry to hear you've been struggling. We'll done for pouring the wine away. Hope you enjoy your morning run. You'll feel so much... 13 minutes ago
vince posted a comment on Two weeks into YEAR TWO!
Congratulations, on your year, and on 'finding' yourself. It's interesting that you say you are 'alone' more, but, you don't say lonely. I think when we are dr... 15 minutes ago
Be-the-change posted a comment on Two funerals
Hi SG. Sending love and hugs to you. I am struck by how centred your words are and how sad it is that our cultural response in the UK is to numb ourselves to lo... 17 minutes ago
Kath5 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hopefulheart.... that was my day 2 post! Great isn’t it? 18 minutes ago



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