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Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Aww look this thread has 400 likes here now although I'd bet more than 400 have passed through! 9 seconds ago
Calgary1 posted a comment on disappointed
Good for you, coming back. Of course you can do it again. Good luck. 59 seconds ago
Suenew posted a comment on Half Bottle? Who in their right mind....?
I can really relate to this. At over 5 years I have had 2 serious lapses it terrified me and my husband does not trust me again.Just one drink and I am not in... 5 minutes ago
PachouliPepper has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
Hi all, feeling very vulnerable just now...lots of people have Covid here and we are a small community...it is creeping closer and closer.Anyhow, went for a wa... 6 minutes ago
Junebug0612 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I am pledging my commitment to my first 100 days. Day one is today 26th October 2020.June 15 minutes ago
four has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
Babysitting day and grandson in 10 minutes late to arrive - so a super fast pop in to say:Aflectic WOWOWOWOWOWOWO you look absolutely stunning!!! Did i ever te... 23 minutes ago
Icarus12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Wow, happy 🐼 day and congratulations to all my fellow Pandas and to all the Milestoners 🎊🎊 what a fabulous, huge board of warriors adding another 10 days or mon... 28 minutes ago
Debbie1954 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi JessicainsobrietyIf you copy and post the pledge just above this Reply to This Box - I [name] etc and state your first day AF, Sean will let you know which t... 29 minutes ago
Stripeyslippers123 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Big congratulations to everyone on the boards today. Special mention to my team mate Morgan on 1 month 🎊I will not be drinking poison today xx 30 minutes ago
Emwaromida has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello everyone, Popping in to say hello to all the 100 thread friends & say a big congratulations to The amazing 🐼teamtoday amazing boards . 🎉🎉🐼🐼🎉🎉🐼🐼🎉🎉&... 45 minutes ago
jjjj has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi everyone,QACI day 16 AF 52 minutes ago
jessicainsobriety has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi,I took the pledge about 5 days ago. How do I get on a team? Not really sure how this works. Thank you 53 minutes ago
Screenjean posted a comment on 26/100 Feeling Good and fat
Congrats on 26 days!I put on a few pounds myself when I first stopped drinking, but gradually the weight came off without really trying, and after a few months... 1 hour ago
Manicmondays has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
A QACI and I will read back more later.Unicorn11 sounds like a plan for Halloween. Guising has been cancelled in this part of the world sadly. Its really good f... 1 hour ago
Screenjean posted a comment on When you just know that drinking will NOT help
Good job, Tealady! Thanks for posting this. I know from my own experience that my wine witch is ever ready to make an unexpected appeal for the "joys" of dri... 1 hour ago
Daisy_4 posted a comment on Vulnerability
That must be so completely disappointing for you so well done for not letting you make wrong decisions with alcohol. This will not last forever and you will co... 1 hour ago
Mellingtonboot posted a comment on My husband's mistress
Thanks, both, but people choose to live their lives in different ways and it works for us. As others have commented, it's about boundaries and communication, a... 1 hour ago
calmseas has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Morning All! Congrats to all the Pandas! So many up there with their name in lights to celebrate. Well done! KeepStrong- love your comments about total days AF,... 1 hour ago
minkycat has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello all and hope you're having a nice Monday. Congratulations to all the Pandas! Also very cute pictures.This is my day 17, and had my first big trigger this... 1 hour ago
Bunnyhug posted a comment on Half Bottle? Who in their right mind....?
Are we ever 100% happy with anything? Is there something around feeling frustrated that the old ghost haunts sometimes? These spectres come about to remind us... 1 hour ago
bellina62 has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
Good morning to all - it's nice for me to be inside and cozy. Yesterday never broke 45 at market and it rained the whole time. That meant excellent leftovers th... 1 hour ago
Verity-May posted a comment on My husband's mistress
You are worth so much more than this. I kept reading through thinking at the end you were going to say the mistress is a cat or dog. They are taking the p1ss Mu... 1 hour ago
Bunnyhug has posted the blog Vulnerability
I'm coming to recognise that one of the key triggers for alcohol craving is feeling vulnerable. I thought it was mostly about anxiety and dulling emotions, so... 1 hour ago
Daisy_4 posted a comment on A Spooky Story
Lucky you made the best possible choice well done for staying strong :) 1 hour ago
Joolsie has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Bunnyhug posted a comment on Recapturing sobriety after a fall
Great stuff Jean, so glad you're back on it and have found your stride again. Big hugs xx 1 hour ago
KeepStrong has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Congratulations to all the Pandas! Well done JacquiW and dixitrix on 100 days, triplets Ttsamous, Itsallaboutlove, and Louise_128 on reaching the halfway mark!... 1 hour ago
Daisy_4 has posted the blog 26/100 Feeling Good and fat
Delighted to get through another weekend AF it was ok to do - not easy but ok - know I can do this. Sipping more water has really helped me feel better and las... 2 hours ago
KatieMac has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 2 hours ago
Mellingtonboot posted a comment on Dream without fear, love without limits.
What a wonderful blog! I love the distinction between choice and willpower, which makes being alcohol-free so joyful. Many congratulations on 200 days, and I... 2 hours ago
Poppy24 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Massive congratulations to everyone on the boards today xx I will not be drinking alcohol today xx 2 hours ago
Molls posted a comment on My husband's mistress
I’m sorry, but WTFF? Why would you allow this? This is so damn WRONG! 2 hours ago
Wren44 has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
hello you lovely sticksNice to read back a bit and hear how you are all doing - hugs to those going through tough times. TMLB what a gorgeous post, full of lovi... 2 hours ago
Lotika has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I Lotika do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will reject alcohol inAll its guises. I join this crusade and my initialtarge... 2 hours ago
SausageDog has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
What a fantastic board Pandas! Congratulations to each and every one of you! And the monthers too, well done especially those achieving their first fabulous AF... 2 hours ago
Soberista has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
No monthlys today!❤   Please email me at sean@soberistas.com if there are any errors or omissions 2 hours ago
Ravenswick has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hey all, QACI from me, very busy weekend with lots achieved so now catching up with everything else for the start of the week. Jump back on the wagon, Cappuccin... 2 hours ago
Daisy_4 posted a comment on Dream without fear, love without limits.
Fantastic and motivational blog x 2 hours ago
Itsallaboutlove posted a comment on Rock Bottom and How It’s Helped Me
Big respect to you for sharing this. I wish you all good things on your journey, peace and strength through the process x 2 hours ago
Wellwell-1 posted a comment on Dream without fear, love without limits.
Well done to have cracked it at such a young age! Lovely to read your blog x 2 hours ago
Katie-Lush has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 2 hours ago
Rain1 posted a comment on Dream without fear, love without limits.
Congratulations on your 200 days Pancake and thank you for such a motivational blog. 2 hours ago
JacquiW has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I am so proud of myself to be AF for 100 days and i am so happy to stateI Jacqui do hereby give my word, that I do now make aSolemn binding pledge, that I will... 3 hours ago
bellina62 posted a comment on Half Bottle? Who in their right mind....?
This is encouraging to read. I'm at 846 days and it discourages me on the days I still hear that faint voice. It's been a gorgeous October here and I get a litt... 3 hours ago
Tealady has posted the blog When you just know that drinking will NOT help
At over 1300 days AF, you’d think I’d be past the days of having to power through an alcohol craving.  But last night, after a particularly long, emotional and... 3 hours ago
NikkiD has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 3 hours ago
Rain1 posted a comment on I need some words of wisdom
Lots of great suggestions already Wellwell. Have you tried the 100 thread on this site before? It’s a really supportive space and has been such a help to me. Go... 3 hours ago
Jazzabelle has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Aww look this thread has 400 likes here now although I'd bet more than 400 have passed through! 9 seconds ago
Calgary1 posted a comment on disappointed
Good for you, coming back. Of course you can do it again. Good luck. 59 seconds ago
Suenew posted a comment on Half Bottle? Who in their right mind....?
I can really relate to this. At over 5 years I have had 2 serious lapses it terrified me and my husband does not trust me again.Just one drink and I am not in... 5 minutes ago
PachouliPepper has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
Hi all, feeling very vulnerable just now...lots of people have Covid here and we are a small community...it is creeping closer and closer.Anyhow, went for a wa... 6 minutes ago
Junebug0612 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
I am pledging my commitment to my first 100 days. Day one is today 26th October 2020.June 15 minutes ago
four has commented in the forum discussions Sparkly Sober October
Babysitting day and grandson in 10 minutes late to arrive - so a super fast pop in to say:Aflectic WOWOWOWOWOWOWO you look absolutely stunning!!! Did i ever te... 23 minutes ago
Icarus12 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Wow, happy 🐼 day and congratulations to all my fellow Pandas and to all the Milestoners 🎊🎊 what a fabulous, huge board of warriors adding another 10 days or mon... 28 minutes ago
Debbie1954 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi JessicainsobrietyIf you copy and post the pledge just above this Reply to This Box - I [name] etc and state your first day AF, Sean will let you know which t... 29 minutes ago
Stripeyslippers123 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Big congratulations to everyone on the boards today. Special mention to my team mate Morgan on 1 month 🎊I will not be drinking poison today xx 30 minutes ago
Emwaromida has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello everyone, Popping in to say hello to all the 100 thread friends & say a big congratulations to The amazing 🐼teamtoday amazing boards . 🎉🎉🐼🐼🎉🎉🐼🐼🎉🎉&... 45 minutes ago



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