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Hi BH! I get your thinking totally and have previously ignored past slips , maybe I am been hard on myself this time. I think in the early days it’s essential t... 1 minute ago
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❤   Please post Day 1 resets and new pledges as the first line in your post ❤   Please email me at sean@soberistas.com or PM your Team Leader if there are any e... 3 minutes ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
So delighted to see the beautiful Peace Rose in your garden and to hear about its creating in memory of your father. There was a lot more that I read about the... 6 minutes ago
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Love this..thanks for sharing xxx 12 minutes ago
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As others have said, it is a very individual thing. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter, as long as you (or whoever) is being totally honest throughout, wi... 12 minutes ago
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I honestly think that individuals have to approach their journey in ways that are enabling for them, not follow what they might perceive as rules or prescriptio... 27 minutes ago
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Afternoon Skinnies! Well I've scrolled back 9 pages, I'm so sorry I've not been around. Firstly Hello to the newbies and returners! :) I gather I've missed a fe... 28 minutes ago
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Congratulations on MOTM Pivoine! So well deserved! Thank you for your beautiful and inspiring presence here. ❤️ Louper - that bouquet is a perfect tribute. Have... 34 minutes ago
Krissee posted a comment on Fatigue
Great work Ruthy! Oh how many times I have used alcohol to give me the false energy you describe. I am having to learn to rest when I need to although I am not... 35 minutes ago
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I just adore you, and (via your description), your OH! What a beautiful thing sobriety is, healing families all over the world. 35 minutes ago
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If it works for you then use it but as someone who has had many slip ups and at one stage left the Soberistas website because I felt I'd failed and there was no... 37 minutes ago
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New, sorry your gothness! You never know you might wear them, they are like Dr Martens, except made in China. 59 minutes ago
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I Dressingroom do herby give my word, that I do now make a Solemn binding pledge,that I will reject alcohol in All its guises. I join this crusade and my initia... 1 hour ago
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I was just reading a blog by Jofree who was expressing feeling a failure because of a slip up. It occurred to me that the mindset I have internalised about the... 1 hour ago
ratherbeswimming has commented in the forum discussions Journey into June
Good Morning peeps!😎SPARKLES, thanks for hosting May and CLAMS, thanks for taking June. What a lovely intro and yes, I’m in.I’m Becky, live in California, US, a... 1 hour ago
Bunnyhug posted a comment on Driving
She's got the power! No more being enslaved to the WW! 1 hour ago
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Clams & everyone hopefully I added Lean on me think going back to Fours fab month of all the questions someone said about this song ? Sorry can’t remember w... 1 hour ago
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Great job fellow A Teamers - and congratulations to soberphotographer! Lots of 1st of the monthers, too. Look at you all! QACI - More later. Day 30 lies ahead.T... 1 hour ago
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Hello Peeps. I have 40 minutes time to type my introduction. Then I have a whatsapp video call with one of my good friends and her lovely twin babies. Clams tha... 1 hour ago
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Glad to hear that you're looking after yourself m'dear, you'll be able to start to tune into yourself much more AF. We all push ourselves far too hard, and rar... 1 hour ago
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MOTM for Pivoine! Here are some namesake flowers to celebrate. The most outrageous bunch - even more fab than the last ones. They don't even look real!Congratul... 1 hour ago
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Just to say hello and I’m in for June. Thank you Clams for hosting xx 1 hour ago
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Rainbowgirl, well done getting right back on. Is there a way you can keep wine out of the house? I would hate to have that put in front of me. Reminds me of... 1 hour ago
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Hi all,I completely missed my team check in day on Saturday and have emailed Sean to let him know I’m still AF and now on day 332. So, belated congratulations t... 1 hour ago
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Thank you Sparkles . You’ve been a wonderful hostess xx 1 hour ago
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Whoa! Looks at those boards! Celebrating the A Team today! Congratulations Soberphotographer on your 100 AF day graduation! Sam, nicely done on tackling the fir... 1 hour ago
Margaret41 has commented in the forum discussions Journey into June
Bellina, I wanted to add that I made strawberry jam all weekend and it really calmed me down a lot. I’m so sorry Washington has erupted so badly. Asheville ha... 2 hours ago
Jofree posted a comment on The Day Counter & Perfection
Hi BH! I get your thinking totally and have previously ignored past slips , maybe I am been hard on myself this time. I think in the early days it’s essential t... 1 minute ago
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❤   Please post Day 1 resets and new pledges as the first line in your post ❤   Please email me at sean@soberistas.com or PM your Team Leader if there are any e... 3 minutes ago
peace has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
So delighted to see the beautiful Peace Rose in your garden and to hear about its creating in memory of your father. There was a lot more that I read about the... 6 minutes ago
Jofree posted a comment on New sobriety challenge
Love this..thanks for sharing xxx 12 minutes ago
BlueAngel posted a comment on The Day Counter & Perfection
As others have said, it is a very individual thing. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter, as long as you (or whoever) is being totally honest throughout, wi... 12 minutes ago
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Rosie39 posted a comment on The Day Counter & Perfection
I honestly think that individuals have to approach their journey in ways that are enabling for them, not follow what they might perceive as rules or prescriptio... 27 minutes ago
coffee-cup has commented in the forum discussions 'Skinny Sista's'
Afternoon Skinnies! Well I've scrolled back 9 pages, I'm so sorry I've not been around. Firstly Hello to the newbies and returners! :) I gather I've missed a fe... 28 minutes ago



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