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despicableme posted a comment on Self care
Sending you lots of love and hugs. You are a great Aunt. 23 minutes ago
Susana1 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 38 minutes ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Awwww, the furries are exceptionally cute today! Boards are back. Yahoo! Thank you, Sean. The link is a great idea too. I missed a few special shoutouts earlier... 1 hour ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello Again,I realized I had neglected to give a Shout Out, Big Hoorah to Our Amazing Monthers! Congratulations to each and All. ❤❤❤ 1 hour ago
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Sciencegirl posted a comment on Yoga or Pilates? Advice please!
Plates is harder to do on your own at home, in my opinion. I love pilates but find it is best done one on one or in a small group with a qualified instructor, u... 1 hour ago
MrJones has commented in the forum discussions August Nature watch
Another quick fly-past tonight, folks.Regarding nastursiums acting as pplant pest decoys - that's a bit frustrating! I'm sure I saved a load of nastutium seeds... 1 hour ago
Nell posted a comment on AF 559 - ARSE ON FIRE
So good to hear from you, Baby O, hang in there, and spend some time here, it’s your home. Hugs, xxx 1 hour ago
StayingAlive has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Bealtaine - sorry, cross posted. What a frustrating and frightening day for you - just when you thought a practical treatment plan was the next step. It does... 1 hour ago
MrJones has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Signing out for today. But, before I go....EllaP, how did your work meeting go? I meant to wish you well for it this morning.KittySweets - you saidyou'd been de... 2 hours ago
StayingAlive has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Well this is me sitting out in the garden and enjoying the cool and the quiet 😁.  Been struggling to get anything energetic done, so switched to sorting, organi... 2 hours ago
Frances has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi Dressingroom - I really struggled around the 80 day mark, not only did I want wine but I wanted to smoke as well which I haven’t done for years! All I could... 2 hours ago
Manicmondays has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Evening all. Day 43 and not really giving alcohol much thought these days. More obsessed with food and how to stop myself piling on any more pounds and shift th... 2 hours ago
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BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Tina, I really love the sentiment of the meditation that you posted. Thanks for sharing that with us. New, great cartoon! Phone calls are tough for me. I have t... 2 hours ago
Bealtaine has commented in the forum discussions August Together
What a shit day. My daughter in her anger over MH issues painted us out as monsters and the psych bought it. Hauled ass with us we thought we were there for a t... 2 hours ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
His gorgeous creation. Hope It shows up.This Sider was alittle bigger than a quarter. Hes not to furry, but beautiful in a Spidy way. 2 hours ago
Startingafresh has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi all, another day done. Its been a mixed bag this week and as the week has gone on my mood seems to have taken a nose dive. Dee, you have had a rollercoaster... 2 hours ago
Cathy_1 has commented in the forum discussions Young at Heart
Therese - have a wonderful break! It’s been such a long time without respite, enjoy every second!Sheer.....how lovely! Yes, they are such time-wasters, but wha... 2 hours ago
Strauss has posted in the forum discussions First post
46 days AF. First time since my twenties have been sober this length of time. Love Soberistas site but just finding my way around. Tried aa but found it dragged... 2 hours ago
Rose4me has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Furry Quack!I've missed the last couple Fursdays, plus my own team day! 😫.....Need to see all those precious faces! ❤️....fur-themed news--just found out a coup... 3 hours ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Snowball waiting patiently for breakfast. 3 hours ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hi All Congratulations to All my Team Awesome AF! Florence... Wonderful Milestone! 500 Days! Hope Your Day is Fabulous.Faithfaery... Congratulations on 250 Days... 3 hours ago
MandyG posted a comment on You've got me for another year, at least...
You ALWAYS inspire me! Thank you. X 3 hours ago
Wander-1 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Finishing up on Day 18 AF.And now safely in PJs and bed.Good night all x 3 hours ago
TheDuchess posted a comment on AF 559 - ARSE ON FIRE
It is so, so good to hear from you Celeste. I’ve missed you, but know that you have strong sobriety so wasn’t worried that you may have picked up a drink. From... 3 hours ago
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NewandWild has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Morning - vqaci - @Cathrine - so glad to hear the test was negative. Rest up xxx @SausageDog - i laughed at you fixing the chores because i give the dishes an e... 3 hours ago
shywolf has commented in the forum discussions August Together
EveningStill waiting here in the outskirts of London for this big thunderstorms we have been promised, all we have had is little drops of rain so far today.I th... 3 hours ago
KittySweets posted a comment on A Very Proud Moment
Lovely story 💕xxwell done on two years 🧘🏻‍♀Ax 3 hours ago
supernooooodles posted a comment on The Dreaded Dream
Never ever want to be there ever again in my life - and you are so correct. The relief of realising that it is a dream is worth it as a reminder. That feeling w... 3 hours ago
Frances posted a comment on Eureka Moment
What a truly lovely friendship - you ‘get’ each other. The only way is up now - bring it on..... xxxx 3 hours ago
KittySweets posted a comment on AF 559 - ARSE ON FIRE
Lovely to hear from you, hope the psychological relapse fades. 💕🌈🙏🏼Xx 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on Day 9
It's so heavily ingrained, that idea that we need booze to celebrate/comiserate / 'come down' from getting over a big hurdle. It's also become the default "spec... 3 hours ago
Suenew posted a comment on Eureka Moment
How lovely to read and what a wonderful friend keep her close x 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on Self care
It's good to think ahead and prepare yourself for the funeral. You know your "whys" of attending. Practice what you'll say when offered the inevitable drinks. D... 3 hours ago
madcatlady has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Evening all,made another sober day,feeling better mentally by the day 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on Follow up, thank you!
Oooh they look like gooood cookies x 3 hours ago
DavinaN1 has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Thanks Bukelan my love. And omg Dallos really does look like THE famous grumpy cat😹😹😹 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on Eureka Moment
I love this. Definitely Eureka Moment over rock bottom! What a great friend to care about you so well. I suspect you're a pretty awesome friend yourself, SoberM... 3 hours ago
NewandWild posted a comment on AF 559 - ARSE ON FIRE
I'm always so happy to see your name come up on the blogs or forums. Sorry to hear of the nightmares 😖 You're safe here with us xxx 4 hours ago
HannahKaren posted a comment on WORRIED ABOUT MY DAUGHTER'S DRINKING
When I read this blog I feel for you. It's so difficult when you can see something and to feel helpless 😔 My sister uses alcohol to help manage her anxiety and... 4 hours ago
AlysR has commented in the forum discussions OK so we don't drink, now what?
Evening - just doing a quick hello. We’re still visiting OHs dad - his mum died in April. It’s been a tricky visit, and v hot weather wis. Looking forward to be... 4 hours ago
Vanessa_3 posted a comment on Eureka Moment
AMAZING, AMAZING, AMAZING!Out of bad comes good:1. Your sobriety is now firmly rooted in that night, this conversation and the line that you have drawn and step... 4 hours ago
Candlestickmaker posted a comment on Follow up, thank you!
Aw that’s brilliant, well done Pasplus, smashing job xxxx 4 hours ago
Candlestickmaker posted a comment on Feeling a bit low
Hang in there snowdrop xxCSMxx 4 hours ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on Feeling a bit low
Hugs to you. You sound very matter of fact about it, but it really is shitty to have to witness the person you love on a self destructive bender, that is hard.... 4 hours ago
Soberista has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Hi allJust to let you know I’m back online. I’ve tried to catchup with all the posts but I’m bound to have missed something so please do let me know if you see... 4 hours ago
despicableme posted a comment on Self care
Sending you lots of love and hugs. You are a great Aunt. 23 minutes ago
Susana1 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 38 minutes ago
BreathRun has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Awwww, the furries are exceptionally cute today! Boards are back. Yahoo! Thank you, Sean. The link is a great idea too. I missed a few special shoutouts earlier... 1 hour ago
Cathrine has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Hello Again,I realized I had neglected to give a Shout Out, Big Hoorah to Our Amazing Monthers! Congratulations to each and All. ❤❤❤ 1 hour ago
Keith195 has joined Soberistas, say Welcome! 1 hour ago
Sciencegirl posted a comment on Yoga or Pilates? Advice please!
Plates is harder to do on your own at home, in my opinion. I love pilates but find it is best done one on one or in a small group with a qualified instructor, u... 1 hour ago
MrJones has commented in the forum discussions August Nature watch
Another quick fly-past tonight, folks.Regarding nastursiums acting as pplant pest decoys - that's a bit frustrating! I'm sure I saved a load of nastutium seeds... 1 hour ago
Nell posted a comment on AF 559 - ARSE ON FIRE
So good to hear from you, Baby O, hang in there, and spend some time here, it’s your home. Hugs, xxx 1 hour ago
StayingAlive has commented in the forum discussions August Together
Bealtaine - sorry, cross posted. What a frustrating and frightening day for you - just when you thought a practical treatment plan was the next step. It does... 1 hour ago
MrJones has commented in the forum discussions 100 DAY AF CRUSADE
Signing out for today. But, before I go....EllaP, how did your work meeting go? I meant to wish you well for it this morning.KittySweets - you saidyou'd been de... 2 hours ago



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